detrans

oh btw the reason you only see like 4 detransitioners publicly is because those are the people with conservative enough opinions willing to go out and speak about their experience. there are thousands of detransitioners in the US but most of us are NOT far-right, and do not wish to be conservative pawns. there’s actuallyContinue reading

people can dislike detransitioners all they want but regardless of that, it is still important to study our experiences… trans people fully deserve to know what the effects will be if they have to or decide to stop taking their medications for any reason.

i’ve been thinking a lot lately about the way my ethnicity affected the way i was gendered as a child, my drive to transition, and even my detransition… as a hispanic growing up with my white mom and white stepdad and white brother and white extended family in scandinavian hell (minnesota), i always felt different,Continue reading

womanwhorideslikeaman: If your first response to someone telling you how HRT made them so ill over a period of years that they lost an insane amount of weight and felt like death every day and that they have since detransitioned for multiple reasons is saying “just remember the science is settled and DONT hate onContinue reading

Stop defending people who say things like “I doubt if detransitioners really exist”!!! we are often mentally ill sometimes formerly institutionalized people who have in the past believed drastically different things about our own identity and reality, stop gaslighting me about my FUCKING LIFE. A healthy culture of trans medicine would acknowledge the risks andContinue reading

Do you care about detransitioners or do you care about gnc people re-conforming to the expectations of their assigned sex? Do you care about lesbians, gay men, bi people, and any other gnc person, or do you care about hyperfeminine women supposedly being “nature’s counterpart” to hypermasculine men, both of whom are expected to performContinue reading

why do people who transitioned as full-on adults continue to speak on what they believe the laws should be regarding child/adolescent medical transition? like how fucking dense do you have to be to think it’s the same situation? if you didn’t MEDICALLY transition in that specific age range, when your mind is more amenable toContinue reading

We deserve better than to be always recovering from surgeries and unsure hormones. My body is in stages of early menopause… i’m 26. I should not have been on T for 8 years but they told me nothing. Why aren’t they gathering data? why don’t they care about trans and gnc patients. it’s all aboutContinue reading

You can support other people’s gender nonconformity without encouraging them to think they are literally “supposed to be” the opposite sex and need to change themselves or like dig out some apparent “true self” within —YOU are always right here. Wherever you go, there you are. We have spent our whole lives being pushed outContinue reading

People will send me graphic death threats and imply they know where I live/locations I frequent just because I post things like, being medically transitioned at the age of 16 under the guidance of homophobic academics and doctors had a serious negative effect on me and my development— physical and mental— and was part ofContinue reading

i wish detrans narratives weren’t centered around looks, appearance. i want them to address the way it feels to live in pain in a surgically altered body- no, i need that to be addressed. it’s not about aesthetics at the end of the day for me. or, the part that cares about aesthetics, that’s likeContinue reading

a few months ago i saw these bitter disgusted posts by a lesbian on here about how nauseating she finds it to look at post-mastectomy detrans women’s bodies and obviously she had a situation with extreme squeamishness at any sort of depiction of wounds or scars in Any way, so i don’t think its rootContinue reading