You can support other people’s gender nonconformity without encouraging them to think they are literally “supposed to be” the opposite sex and need to change themselves or like dig out some apparent “true self” within —YOU are always right here. Wherever you go, there you are. We have spent our whole lives being pushed out of traditional womanhood at times, so the last thing someone needs to do is be like “you arent welcome here”. What, because i have short hair and wear no makeup? That doesn’t mean you have to treat me like i was meant to become someone else. Men show me no grace and have no room for me in their spaces. And i know what it’s like to be a girl!!!!! All my masculinity is inherent to me. In the act of becoming I create myself.